It’s such a heart-warming picture of our babies with coordi noona (SM stuff).
Jealousy take over fans’ and they write things like: “Who does she think she is?!”, “she doesn’t have a right to touch him!”
I don’t know, but I don’t feel jealous at all. Yes, I’d love to hug them too, but I’m happy that they have such a nice and caring coordi noona. Let’s not forget they’re still kids, who barely see their own mothers and I’m sure they miss their families a lot. We can often see our oppas with coordi noonas, because she is almost like their mother, who they can talk to and confide on. She’s there when they’re tired, depressed or discouraged, she takes care of them, comforts them, prepares them for the show, etc.
Coordi noona isn’t only about brushing their hair, helping in taking their stage clothes off, mopping the sweat from their foreheads. It may sound like a dream job, but it isn’t. It’s a VERY DIFFICULT JOB, and most of us would demand a psychiatric treatment after one week. She must make sure they will arrive everywhere on time, EVERYONE, without someone being late or getting lost. I’m not sure if she takes care of their meals, but I wouldn’t be surprised, if she did. She definitely checks if they ate properly, drank water and feel fine.
So yes, she has a right to touch them, to hug them, because your oppa probably needs a hug. Not a hug from a band-mate. A hug from a parent.
It’s like you taking care of a child. You make sure the kid’s safe, well-rested, healthy and happy. And a kid needs a hug sometimes, to feel safe, important and that there’s someone, who will always be there for you.
Yes, there are bad coordi noonas, but this post is about the “good ones”, who really do their best and takes really good care of our idols.
Let’s appreciate coordi noonas’ <3
picture not mine, credits to the owner. The pic is definitely somewhere on tumblr, but I couldn’t find it and I wanted to share my opinion about it.